Couples: Architect

Build your baseline. Then compare it with your partner.

Each of you takes the assessment independently. Afterward, you’ll use a private link to connect your results and view a shared Cohesion Report.

Begin your assessment

How this assessment works

The assessment runs across 9 gates. Each gate covers a distinct theme — power, sensation, devotion, ritual, trust, intimacy, expression, discovery, and alignment.

Each gate has 10 questions. You answer them one at a time, at your own pace. There are 90 questions in total.

When you finish a gate, you’ll see a brief reflection before moving to the next one. At the end, you’ll receive an archetype snapshot based on the full pattern of your answers.

A single question can inform more than one theme area. The diagram shows how responses map across dimensions — not as a score, but as signal.

How to use the answer scale

Each question uses a five-point Neon Pulse scale. The scale runs from no resonance to full resonance.

Answer for resonance, not frequency. The scale is not asking how often you do something. It is asking how much the statement fits your sense of yourself — right now, honestly.

Answer what is true, not what sounds right. There is no correct answer. Answers that fit a pattern you want to project are less useful than answers that fit who you actually are.

Skip if you are not ready. You can skip any question. Skipped questions do not count against your result.

Your results are private by default

Your answers are not visible to anyone else. Your result is private until you choose to share it.

If you save your results, they are stored to your account and visible only to you. Sharing requires an explicit action — a unique link you generate yourself.

Archetypes are interpretive, not clinical diagnoses. This assessment does not determine your identity; it maps a pattern based on your responses.

A note on partner visibility

Your partner does not see your detailed results unless you both opt in to Full Reveal. The default shared report — the Cohesion Report — shows shared themes and growth areas without exposing individual scores or response detail.

Full Reveal is optional and only unlocks with mutual consent from both partners.

Before you start

  • Set aside 15–20 minutes without interruption
  • Find a private, low-distraction environment
  • Answer for yourself — not for a hypothetical ideal, and not for your partner
  • If you cannot finish in one session, your progress is saved automatically
  • You and your partner each take the assessment independently — do not share answers or discuss responses during the session

What happens after you finish

  1. Your individual results. You’ll receive your own archetype snapshot — private, not shared with your partner automatically.

  2. Connect with your partner. Use the Mirror Link to invite your partner. When they complete their assessment, a Cohesion Report becomes available.

  3. The Cohesion Report. A shared view that shows themes you both have in common and areas for growth — without exposing raw scores. Full Reveal is optional and requires mutual opt-in.

Begin your assessment

Your results are private by default.

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